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A Fixed-Point Life

There are two ways we grow: by adding what we need or by removing what we don’t—and knowing which to use can reshape how we learn, build wealth, or find fulfillment. Drawing from the idea of fixed points in computer science, this article uses the metaphor of filling a basket with apples to illustrate how we either start empty and gather carefully (least fixed point) or start full and discard what’s unneeded (greatest fixed point). We learn songs by starting with nothing and practicing until we master them. We find love, peace, or ego-loss by starting with openness and subtracting what harms. Even life itself follows this arc: we grow through accumulation, then decay by shedding. The trap is trying to chase satisfaction by endless addition, when sometimes clarity and freedom come from subtraction. Whether it’s learning, earning, or letting go, the path you choose—build up or strip away—makes all the difference.

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Welcome to Love

Some parents believe that providing food and shelter (sustenance) is enough to earn respect, but this bare minimum can mask a deeper failure to love. When children push back against this faulty reasoning, it’s not rebellion but a reflection of years of emotional starvation—a revenant arrow returning to the one who launched it. Like a business man does not blame his business for its own bankruptcy, a child cannot be blamed for withering under poor nourishment, even if resources were spent. Love is not a luxury—it is the crucial nutrient without which all other efforts are simply diminished in their effectiveness. I’ve witnessed many brilliant, young, and talented individual destroyed not by the world, but by those who claimed to raise them. There is no honor in producing survivors. And often, the parent, having refused to listen, dies alone—convinced they were right.

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